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Rob, Blac Chyna and relationship foolishness

Rob, Blac Chyna and relationship foolishness Posted on July 11, 2017

I am a writer and educator. My passion is making things better than they were before I got there. I want a world where frank conversations about sex and sexuality are not minimized, avoided or just outright banned. I want have a world where women and men are treated equally. A world where no girl under age of 18 has a child unless SHE is fully capable of having one (mentally, emotionally, financially and physically). I want a world where boys under the age of 18 understand that using devaluing girls and young women for their own sexual pleasure not only degrades the person they are with but also themselves. I want a world where people stop having "Oops babies". I want a world where a women isn't disemboweled because she called out her ex's name during sex. I want a world where a woman doesn't lie about physical abuse as punishment in child custody cases. I want a world where a transwoman can walk in public with her partner and he's not ridiculed by his family, friends or society at large. I want a world where a man is viewed as being just as capable as raising a child as any woman. I want young people to learn how to make healthy life-affirming decisions regarding love, sex and romantic relationships for a lifetime, not just one time. I want a world where women and men don't come to the table in a relationship with their sex organs and think its the only thing of value they have to offer. I want a world where people view each other as individuals, not as potential victims. I want a world where healthy relationships are the rule, not the exception. I want a world where being kinky is perfectly okay. I want a world where you can go to your grandmother on advice for buying a new sex toy. Oh and I want to have a good time wherever I go!

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So, I have been going back and forth on whether or not I was going to reply to the foolishness of Rob and Chyna.

Let’s be honest. This was a clusterfuck we all saw coming. We knew he needed therapy, a life coach and a personal trainer. She needed to get some therapy and learn how to have healthy relationships.

When you decide that you are going to take ‘revenge’ on the sixteen year old sister of your friend that you believe ‘stole’ your baby-daddy, You need better life goals and decision-making skills.

So you (Blac Chyna) decide that starting a relationship with said sixteen year old’s brother was the next logical action in this situation.

it was not

but do you really, really care about what anyone else thinks?

apparently not from your social media postings from the time you guys decided to get together until you sent Rob that video of you kissing another guy (apparently in the bed he bought for your guys) was a way to show him that you didn’t want to be with him anymore.

Um, okay.

See, I am against slut-shaming. I think men and woman should be able to have sex with whomever they want, how they want as long as

1. everyone is over legal age of consent (18 for goodness sake)

2. emotionally and mentally able to give consent.

This means your sex partners should be willing, competent, not a child or teenager (hence the over 18 part) and have full mental capacity to understand what the hell they are getting into.

Rob was a recluse suffering from depression and weight gain. He needed a therapist and fitness trainer, not unlimited blowjobs and masturbation pictures.

Sometimes, you have to tell someone NO. Not because you are not interested but because THEY are not in position to have a healthy, whole, relationship. One broken person will not complete a relationship.

Rob has shown in the past that he will slut-shame a woman quick (Rita Orr anyone?)

and its fucked up.

I don’t care if she slept with 30 guys

its her body.

its only relevant you in SPECIFIC reasons, including:

1. she said she would not have sex with anyone else but you and obviously she wasn’t being truthful
2. You contracted and STI/STD after telling you she was NOT having sex with anyone but you.

now, outside of that, I’m going to need a real good reason (not that there is one) for you posting naked pictures of your ex on the internet.

Okay, she has cheating on you.

AND

I know you are butt-hurt about it. I have been there (and the other side too) but you have to be a grown-up and SUCK IT UP.

stay the hell off the INTERNET!

There, I said it.

Pretend the keys on your laptop and phone are poisonous snakes.

DON’T TOUCH

Get a good lawyer, therapist, LIFE COACH and trainer and again, STAY OFF THE INTERNET.

co-parent your child and figure out why you aren’t doing well in the relationship department.

Now, Chyna isn’t getting off scot-free.

You can’t play with anyone like you played him. Again, we were rooting for you (I mean the people of the Internet)

We knew you didn’t like Rob for Rob, you wanted to get back at Kylie for ‘stealing’ your man. Did it ever occur to you that you can’t STEAL a man? Really sis, you can’t.

I’m going to tell you a secret, You can’t make a person (man, woman or gender queer) STAY where they DO NOT want to be.

Tyga didn’t want to be with you. Now, he should have told you that instead of going after your friend Kim’s sister. It was Tyga’s decision to slide up to a sixteen year old. You should have called the police, made sure you had your child support and visitation in check and keep it pushing. Trying to get ‘revenge’ on a sixteen year old, is petty. She didn’t owe you any loyalty, Tyga did. That’s whose neck you should have come for, not anyone else.

but you didn’t.

You decided to get back at Kylie by screwing her brother.

Bad decision.

and it went downhill from there.

If he was abusive to you, That was truly awful.
If he was not, its ugly for you to accuse him to draw attention from to your behavior

If you in fact were off and on for most of the time you were together, then you should have not accepted any of his ‘gifts’ including paying for cars, buying $250k in jewels, having him pay your bills, etc. That’s not what you do to someone you aren’t involved with. It IS what you do when you think someone is a simp and want him to pay your bills.

If you spend pay some woman’s bills, buy her $250k worth of jewels, buy her family members presents and think because you do that you are in a relationship, that’s not what that means. It means you are ‘buying’ her time. There is a difference between that and a relationship.

A BIG DIFFERENCE.

If Rob thought that spending money on Chyna meant they were in a relationship apparently he was the only one.

I think this clusterfuck is only going to get worse before it gets better.

It is a cautionary tale and a example of how to avoid toxic people.

Hurt people hurt people.

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I am a writer and educator. My passion is making things better than they were before I got there. I want a world where frank conversations about sex and sexuality are not minimized, avoided or just outright banned. I want have a world where women and men are treated equally. A world where no girl under age of 18 has a child unless SHE is fully capable of having one (mentally, emotionally, financially and physically). I want a world where boys under the age of 18 understand that using devaluing girls and young women for their own sexual pleasure not only degrades the person they are with but also themselves. I want a world where people stop having "Oops babies". I want a world where a women isn't disemboweled because she called out her ex's name during sex. I want a world where a woman doesn't lie about physical abuse as punishment in child custody cases. I want a world where a transwoman can walk in public with her partner and he's not ridiculed by his family, friends or society at large. I want a world where a man is viewed as being just as capable as raising a child as any woman. I want young people to learn how to make healthy life-affirming decisions regarding love, sex and romantic relationships for a lifetime, not just one time. I want a world where women and men don't come to the table in a relationship with their sex organs and think its the only thing of value they have to offer. I want a world where people view each other as individuals, not as potential victims. I want a world where healthy relationships are the rule, not the exception. I want a world where being kinky is perfectly okay. I want a world where you can go to your grandmother on advice for buying a new sex toy. Oh and I want to have a good time wherever I go!

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