There comes a point when its not about the other person, its about you. Yep YOU.
Make better decisions
Stop making decisions about someone based on how they look, where they look, how they dance, what they drive.
Does it really make them a respectful person? a loving person? a kind, generous (non-monetary)person?
Not at all.
We (the collective You and I) spend our time chasing and running behind men and women who don’t view you as a person as much as they view you as a body part.
You think you are in a monogamous relationship, until the test results come back.
Community dick and Community pussy is real.
Stop putting your common sense in your back pocket.
Stopping putting logic on the back burner.
Stop taking someone’s ‘word’ for it versus their actions.
Love is a verb, not an adjective.
Too often, individuals have no clue what love is, let alone have positive, healthy and happy love role models.
and that is sad.
There is nothing wrong with pulling back.
maybe you should, perhaps.
Let’s take this time to fall back and pull yourself together. Go back to school. Learn a new skill. Get your finances in order. Buy a house. Take a trip to another country. Learn a foreign language. volunteer. Get a pet. See a therapist. Start a workout routine.
Do something productive. Please.
But stop chasing people to avoid yourself.